When you wake up one morning and see that small
bumps have grown up on the head of your penis, you are certainly shocked, do
not know what they are, how they got there and what should you do in order to
treat them. It is absolutely normal to feel like that, just as it is quite
normal to feel embarrassed and want to hide the whole deal until you can tell
it as a joke to your friends after a beer or two. However, there is someone to
whom you will have to disclose your secret after all and that person is your partner.
Think about your reaction when you saw the bumps.
Now if you felt that way, you can be sure that your partner will not react in a
compassionate way if she sees those papules on your penis for the first time,
without any previous warning. In fact, even though you may expect a certain
reaction, it will certainly be painful when she will laugh at you or on the
contrary, will be so scared that will not even want to touch you. This is why
you will have to explain her beforehand what those bumps are
.
You should have an open discussion, where you will
tell her that the pearly penile papules is not a STD, not even a contagious
disease, so she has nothing to be afraid about. Also, explaining her that this
is only a skin condition which appears for no other reason but the bad function
of your own body will probably calm her and avoid some useless tensions which
may appear between you two. If necessary, show her pictures from the internet,
so that she can compare them with the skin condition you are suffering from and
see that there is no connection between those bumps and the ones caused by STD.
If you have a life partner, with whom you share both
the good and the bad things t should not be so difficult and she will probably
understand. Those who do not have a constant partner will experience some
trouble in explaining their condition, but it is better to prevent than having
to face a reaction which will severely affect your image and your self-esteem.
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